Introduction To Realm
Preview our 3 minute Introduction to Realm Video for more information regarding your Login, Family Profile, Member Groups, Event Registration, and Event/Tuition Payments.
Profile | Online Tuition Management | Groups |
Everyone in our parish gets a unique profile. Joining Realm allows you to update your contact information, manage privacy settings, set notification preferences, update your photo and more. | Realm allows you to manage your tuition in a secure, easy-to-use environment. Review all of your payment history online anytime. | Groups and classes are an important part of our parish community. Now you can connect with the people in them throughout the week. |

Online Account Access/Activation
An account for each preschool family will be created in our Realm St. Michael Parish Database. Each family will be asked to accept our email invitation to activate their parish account. Once your account is activated, you will be able to access your account, simply by logging into Realm .
If you are unable to login due to an invalid/unknown email, this means your account has not been activated. If this is the case, check spam for an invite from “St. Michael The Archangel <notifications@onrealmmail.com>” or email preschool@stmcary.org to request a new activation invitation.
Family Profile/ Contact Information
Once you have logged into Realm, take a few moments to review your family’s profile. A link to your profile is found in the upper right-hand corner of the screen.
Please take a moment to review the following:
- Your families privacy and notification settings
- Parent contact information (address, phone, email)
- Each child’s emergency contact
- Child’s allergy/medical needs, if applicable.

Privacy and Security
By default, the viewing of your contact and personal information is limited to members of groups you are in, group leaders, and staff members. If you choose to, however, you can make your information visible to the entire church. But if you prefer to be more private, you can customize how people see specific information. Whether communicating with others through Realm, updating your information or giving online, Realm is a secure platform chosen with your privacy and security in mind.
This brief 2-minute video will help put your mind at ease and know that St. Michael and Realm take your privacy concerns seriously!
Other Helpful Resources
Frequently Asked Questions
FAQ – Click here to see a list of Frequently Asked Questions for users of Realm or Click here to Learn How to Pay Tuition Online
Realm on the Move
Not near your computer but want to connect? No problem, we’ve got you covered! Download our Realm App by searching “Connect – Our Church Community” in your App Store for iOS or Android devices. Connecting with other Preschool Parents, Event Registration, and Event Payments is right at your fingertips (An active Realm Login is required).

Realm Groups
Want to connect with other parents in your child’s class? The Realm Groups function will be available to all classroom parents. Realm Groups offers an opportunity for families within your class to connect and network, encouraging fellowship among our community. It is important that you review your Realm privacy settings before the Group Chat feature is activated at the beginning of each school year.
Log into Realm, to get started.
Select “Groups” in the left menu bar
Select the Group you wish to chat with
Select the “Participants” Tab along top menu bar
Then Select “Chat”
